Network She Academy Trainer

Pauline Ronan


About six years ago, I was feeling lost, stuck and a bit invisible.  How could it be that I had a successful job, a great family, a lovely husband and son, but I was no longer sure who I was anymore?

I was plodding along and blending in, but not living my best life, as me!

I knew there was more to be had. I didn’t want to be on the side-lines anymore! I really wanted a change and an exciting new purpose but I didn’t know what I was looking for or how to get it. I wanted to grow into my own skin and start to really feel connected and fully alive as my own best friend! I wanted to offer myself kindness and compassion. I wanted to feel good and look good from the inside out, but I had to find the tools to make these ambitions a reality.

As I mulled over these desires, I decided it was time to make a change! I began to explore yoga and meditation to see if they could help me find out who I was and what I was missing. I had to really think about what I actually wanted out of life and what did I need to do to move forward?

I was excited to learn that by reframing scenarios in a positive way that I could feed my brain a positive message instead of having the negative soundtrack playing in my mind. I realised that the imagination is such a creative tool, but it can also enable you to waste time creating imaginary negative scenarios in your head that might never happen.

With my improving perspective on life, I made the decision to start running which released the serotonin and endorphins in my brain that made me feel good. I returned to that enthusiastic and curious person who wanted to experience more and enjoy life to the full.  With my new running routine, I was delighted to find I was able to lose a stone in weight. Running also opened connections to my local community and allowed me to meet so many lovely new friends. In 2018 I ran my first marathon which felt like a pivotal moment in this truly incredible journey.

The game-changer for me was discovering coaching; to say it was a revelation is an understatement. From feeling in a place where I was lost, uncertain of who I was and what I wanted my coach showed me how to have a voice to explain what my dreams and goals were. He helped me to visualise what I wanted my future to look like. All these techniques, amongst dozens of others, allowed me to feel fully alive again!! I had developed the confidence to make exciting changes without the fear of failing.

I started to think about how I could use my new-found knowledge and enlightenment to help others.  I started to realise just how many people, particularly women, felt like I had. I realised that sharing positivity and using reframing could help people to move forward quite quickly, instead of lingering in the same repetitive and negative story over and over.

I am now so happy after twenty years of teaching to say that I am an NLP life coach and am well on my way to being a Human Givens Psychotherapist. I have my own coaching business called ‘StepForward- Coaching’.  I have become an author with another five books being written.  My work allows me to offer people tools to move forward with a big emphasis on exercise, meditation and visualisation. I love what I do and feel delighted that I can help an individual to transform by enabling them to access their own innate toolkit.

I would love to help you blossom.  I would love other people to experience what I have experienced and to realise that dreams do happen as soon as you remove any limiting beliefs and really allow yourself to dream big and let your light shine!!!

Pauline’s book ‘The Pocketbook of Positivity and Reframing’ is available from Amazon for £7.99.

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